{"id":1864,"date":"2022-02-18T09:55:17","date_gmt":"2022-02-18T09:55:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.argyll-bute.gov.uk\/marriage\/?p=1864"},"modified":"2026-03-02T14:19:10","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T14:19:10","slug":"promises","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.argyll-bute.gov.uk\/marriage\/2022\/02\/promises\/","title":{"rendered":"Promises"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1864\" class=\"elementor elementor-1864\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-995f6b6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"995f6b6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bf36d9f\" data-id=\"bf36d9f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ec07b2b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ec07b2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You may wish to make a promise to one another; you can write your own making the meaning more personal to one another.<\/p><h2><strong>Examples of Promises<\/strong><\/h2><h3><strong>Promises 1<\/strong><\/h3><h4>Party 1<\/h4><p>(name), I promise to trust you and honour you<\/p><p>I will laugh with you and cry with you<\/p><p>I will love you faithfully<\/p><p>Through the best and worst<\/p><p>Through the difficult and the easy<\/p><p>What may come I promise that I will always be there<\/p><p>As I give you my hand to hold<\/p><p>So I give you my life to keep<\/p><h4>Party 2<\/h4><p>(Name) I promise to trust you and honour you<\/p><p>I promise to laugh with you and cry with you<\/p><p>I promise to love you in good times and bad<\/p><p>When life seems easy and when it seems hard<\/p><p>When our love is simple or when it needs a bit of effort<\/p><p>This is my promise to you today and for the rest of my life.<\/p><h3><strong>Promises 2<\/strong><\/h3><p>Today (1st party name) I ask you to be my partner.<\/p><p>To be loving, loyal, and support me in life.<\/p><p>I ask that you vow to do your best for our relationship,<\/p><p>for the children and for our lives together.<\/p><p>Will you promise me this?<\/p><p>2<sup>nd<\/sup> party \u2013 I will<\/p><p>And I ask you (2<sup>nd<\/sup> party name) to be my partner.<\/p><p>To be devoted and faithful, loving and supporting me<\/p><p>and working for the good of our relationship (and our family) &#8211; optional)<\/p><p>Will you promise me this?<\/p><p>1<sup>st<\/sup> Party \u2013 I will<\/p><h3><strong>Promises 3<\/strong><\/h3><h4>Party 1<\/h4><p>(name of 2<sup>nd<\/sup> Partner), I will cherish our friendship,<\/p><p>I will love you today, tomorrow and forever,<\/p><p>I will laugh with you and cry with you,<\/p><p>I will love you through the best and the worst,<\/p><p>Through the difficult and the easy,<\/p><p>Come what may, I will always be there.<\/p><h4>Party 2<\/h4><p>(name of 1<sup>st<\/sup> partner), I will trust you and honour you,<\/p><p>I will love you faithfully,<\/p><p>I will help you when you need help,<\/p><p>I will turn to you when I need help,<\/p><p>As we face the future together,<\/p><p>I promise to stand by your side,<\/p><p>I choose you as the person with whom I will spend the rest of my life.<\/p><h3><strong>Promises 4<\/strong><\/h3><h4>Party 1<\/h4><p>I (name of 1<sup>st<\/sup> Party) ask you (name of 2<sup>nd<\/sup> party)<\/p><p>To be my partner in life<\/p><p>And to be my one true love<\/p><p>I will trust and honour you<\/p><p>I will laugh and cry with you<\/p><p>And love you today, tomorrow and forever<\/p><p>I pledge that I will be a loving a devoted partner to you<\/p><p>And also a devoted parent to (name of children)<\/p><p>This is my promise to you.<\/p><h4>Party 2<\/h4><p>I (name of 2<sup>nd<\/sup> party) ask you (name of 1<sup>st<\/sup> party)<\/p><p>To be my partner in life<\/p><p>And to be my one true love<\/p><p>I pledge that from this day forward<\/p><p>I will trust, cherish and honour you<\/p><p>I will always be there for you<\/p><p>To bring you happiness and laughter to our marriage<\/p><p>To share the good and the bad parts of our life together<\/p><p>This is my promises to you.<\/p><h3>\u00a0<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-607803d elementor-section-boxed 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class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3><strong>Promises 5<\/strong><\/h3><p>Each partner to say:<\/p><p>In front of these witnesses present<\/p><p>I (name) promise to love, honour and respect you (name)<\/p><p>I promise to be a faithful, honest and devoted partner to you<\/p><p>In good times and bad<\/p><p>As long as we both shall live<\/p><h3><strong>Promise 6<\/strong><\/h3><p>I love you more than roses<\/p><p>And anything money can buy<\/p><p>I love you more than life itself<\/p><p>We\u2019ll be together till we die<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when you\u2019re healthy<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when you\u2019re sick<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when you\u2019re wealthy<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when you\u2019re rich<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when we are together<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you when we are apart<\/p><p>I\u2019ll love you each and every day<\/p><p>From the bottom of my heart<\/p><p>(Party) I ask today to be my partner<\/p><p>And I be yours<\/p><p>So this can the happiest day of our life<\/p><h3><strong>Promise 7<\/strong><\/h3><p>Let\u2019s grow old together<\/p><p>Hand in hand you and me<\/p><p>Sharing life\u2019s great memories<\/p><p>Keeping each other company<\/p><p>Living loving laughing<\/p><p>Smelling roses as we go<\/p><p>Even when our eye sight dims<\/p><p>And the steps we take are slow<\/p><p>No matter where life leads us<\/p><p>Remember this is true<\/p><p>Today Tomorrow forever<\/p><p>I always will love you<\/p><h3><strong>Promise 8<\/strong><\/h3><p>My promise to you is simple<\/p><p>I\u2019ll endure until the end<\/p><p>I\u2019ll be your one and only<\/p><p>Your lover and your friend<\/p><p>I\u2019ll listen and I\u2019ll nurture<\/p><p>I\u2019ll fight and I\u2019ll be true<\/p><p>I\u2019ll do my equal share and I<\/p><p>Will never give up on you<\/p><p>I\u2019ll try to do my very best<\/p><p>I\u2019ll walk beside you hand in hand<\/p><p>I\u2019ll help you to succeed<\/p><p>I\u2019ll be your constant equal<\/p><p>I\u2019ll 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